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Learn More About Anxiety, Stress and Trauma
Check out the blog posts below for insights about anxiety, trauma, relationships and self-worth to support women in Benicia and Vallejo, CA in their healing journeys.
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Finding Therapy in Los Angeles for People Pleasers: Los Angeles People Pleasing Therapy
I get it. You say yes when you want to say no. You put others first, even when it drains you. You crave approval like air. It’s exhausting. And it’s lonely. You want to break free. But how? Therapy. Yes, therapy can help. But not just any therapy. You need therapy that gets you. Therapy that understands the tangled web of people pleasing. Therapy in Los Angeles tailored for people pleasers like you. Why People Pleasing Feels Like a Trap People pleasing isn’t just being nice.
Simone Adkins
Mar 93 min read
Why People-Pleasing, Anxiety, and Self-Doubt Often Come From Relationship Trauma
If you struggle with people-pleasing, anxiety, guilt, or constant overthinking, it’s easy to believe something is wrong with you. You might tell yourself you’re too sensitive. Too anxious. Too emotional. Not confident enough. But in many cases, these patterns didn’t start with you. They started in relationships. People-pleasing, chronic stress, and self-doubt are often learned survival responses that develop in environments where emotional safety was inconsistent or missing.
Simone Adkins
Mar 55 min read


Healing Self-Worth for Women: A Journey to Reclaim Your Inner Strength
Low self-worth can feel like a heavy fog that dims your light and muffles your voice. It’s not just about feeling a little down or doubting yourself occasionally. It’s a deep, persistent belief that you’re not enough. If you’ve been carrying this weight, especially after experiencing anxiety, stress, or relationship trauma, you’re not alone. Healing self-worth for women is a vital step toward reclaiming your power and living a life where you feel worthy of love, respect, and
Simone Adkins
Mar 25 min read


Attuned Counseling and Healing Attachment Wounds in Therapy
When life feels overwhelming, and the weight of anxiety, stress, or past relationship wounds presses down on you, finding the right kind of support can feel like searching for a light in the dark. That’s where attuned counseling steps in. It’s not just therapy; it’s a way to reconnect with yourself and others in a deeply meaningful way. You might wonder, what is attuned counseling exactly? It’s a therapeutic approach that focuses on truly understanding and responding to your
Simone Adkins
Feb 234 min read


Reconnecting with Your Body: A Path to Healing
Why Your Body Matters in Healing Your nervous system stores experiences that your conscious mind might not even remember. The tightness in your chest when someone raises their voice. The knot in your stomach before family gatherings. The way your shoulders creep toward your ears when you're around certain people. These aren't random physical sensations—they're information. Your body is signaling what it perceives as danger based on patterns it learned in past relationships. T
Simone Adkins
Dec 13, 20255 min read


Let Your "No" Be Yes
As I reflect on the idea of asserting "no" in all its various ways, I realize that doing so can involve many mixed or even conflicting...
Simone Adkins
Mar 14, 20252 min read


Therapy to Love Yourself: The Heart of How I Work
This is the hard part: Talking about myself. How do you capture life experiences in a summary? Well, here goes my best effort: I believe...
Simone Adkins
Jan 28, 20251 min read


Talking Until You're Blue in the Face: Including the Body in Talk Therapy
I spend a lot of time talking about the body when it comes to therapy and overall well-being, particularly when the discussion involves...
Simone Adkins
Aug 20, 20243 min read


Choosing a Therapist? Consider This...
Considering a consultation for therapy? Maximize this opportunity to find a therapist who can fit your needs. Mental health therapists...
Simone Adkins
Jul 30, 20242 min read


"I Thought I Got Past This!"
Unresolved Pain: When Past Memories Won't Let Go I've heard it time and time again from friends, women I support in therapy and yes, I've...
Simone Adkins
Jun 18, 20244 min read


Mental Health: There's No Health Without It
I'm so grateful that people are more aware of the importance of mental health. This supports efforts to reduce and hopefully eliminate...
Simone Adkins
Dec 3, 20233 min read


Heal Thyself...
I learned about the powerful use of healing through the body by accident . Someone literally tried to destroy my life. They didn't...
Simone Adkins
Nov 17, 20232 min read


Why "Attuned"?
Words are powerful. They can build us up and destroy us. Words are powerful. They can build us up and destroy us. A book, a song, even a...
Simone Adkins
Nov 12, 20232 min read
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